![]() The main thing that drew us apart was that she has had many health issues, and I am an active outdoors enthusiast. and the love we shared with our daughter was very close and bonding for us. My wife and I were certainly not perfect together, but we were far from bad. My wife has told me that she decided she didn't want to be poly because she found such a fulfilling relationship with one person. I am finally accepting that this is happening, and now I am learning how to deal with it. I feel very left behind and replaced, and quite frankly.rather depressed about the whole thing. She just moved out of the house 2 days ago, and the very first day she is introducing the new man to her family. I tried to get her to consider that she was being swept up in NRE and this isn't the right choice.but she is sure that she is doing what is right for her. I have been struggling with this in a big way for the last week, trying very hard to get her to consider working on our marriage.but she has been adamant that this is what she needs. This was just over a week ago (actually Father's Day, nice touch). I still love you and I want us to stay best friends, but I don't think I want you to be my husband any more. I was upset by this, because she was losing her focus on us.and on the 4th day (I was still out of town), when I pressed her on the situation, I get this text. Our communication while I was gone was dropping off, normally she would talk to me quite a lot through text and all, but it turned out she spent 4 days in a row with him. I was getting concerned as she seemed to be getting completely lost in him. she had told me she wouldn't see him more than a few times. ![]() I travel quite a lot for work, and last week when I was out of town. The main reason for the scheduling is that we have an 8yr old daughter and I felt that she wasn't getting enough family time. We talked about scheduling, and I thought we had things under control, but she just kept pushing boundaries. He was very good for her in many ways, and I was happy for her, but then she started seeing him a lot. My wife of 15 years started dating a guy about 5 weeks ago.
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